Bonjour Ladies!!! 

         I'm so sorry It's been so long since I've posted something but I've  been so busy, but I promise to post on a regular basis!!! Hope you are all enjoying my thoughts,  Email me yours!! I'll write back! :) xo


     Someone once said it's important who you surround yourself with, the five people that help you greatly. In life you will have lots of people coming and going in your life, some really close friends some mere  acquaintances but they all influence you in some way.
   Having a good group of people you surround yourself with help you everyday. Weather in a small way like you know they're just there for support or having some one who's always there for you no matter what.

  My top five people are:

   1. Mother
   2. Sister
   3. Dad
   4. Nadie, Kristin and Dionne
   5. Toby

     My mom is my best friend, and she's also my mother. I can talk to her about anything and I know she will always hands down have my back.
     My sister will always be there for me just because she's my sister. We've been through tough times but we've always had a close relationship and I know I can call her to vent or ask advice about.
    Now my father and I are very much alike... We might not like similar music exactly or play chess but we bother are very honest, hard of hearing; we look alike and are strong hard workers! We both struggle in life but always manage to overcome those obstacles. I know he will always support me also.
     Nadine Kristen and Dionne I met 3 years ago when I was away at school. We where the four musketeers or the "Traveling Sisters who Wear Pants" as we call ourselves. Through them I found what it's like to have three girls looking out for you, we could talk about anything and just always have a great time. I had a strong stable relationship with them that I'll never forget or lose.
     Toby and I have been friends for five almost six years, I always thought here was something more to our relationship but through the years learned to let go and I found that I could always call or text him for advice and he would be honest and understanding. I realize now that I'm so happy to have him as a friend because through it all I know he'll be there to help me out anytime.

     In order to succeed in life you have to have people around you that bring you up, not tear you down. That's a very VERY important lesson my friend told me and it's true. Once you get rid of those people or friends that aren't helping you you feel great!
   I've done that in my life, stop talking to friends because they weren't helping me. I didn't see a spot for them in my life. Life's short to be bogged down by negative, selfish, inconsiderate people.
      Sometimes people stop talking to you because of the same reason. One of my best friends who I spoke with almost every day, hung out with all the time out of the blue stopped talking to me. I  don't know if I offended her or she just decided she didn't want to be my friend anymore. I was hurt because It was so sudden, I called and left text messages. It was like breaking up with someone, I didn't know what i did wrong and I was upset. It's been a year and half now and I'm perfectly fine, she obviously made up her mind and didn't need me in her life. I also didn't need her because she brought me down.
   You need to be friends with people who are like you, will try new things with you, be open to do fun creative things and not be afraid.
  Your top five people should love you unconditionally and just with a few words make you feel like a million bucks and that you can conquer the world!

      hope you look at your life and figure out who loves you for you and who are the people bringing you down. Support people you care about and they will support  you!

LOVE,
 Virgin Supergirl.

An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild
beast; a wild beast may wound your body, but an evil friend
will wound your mind.
    - Buddha

   Hello Ladies, 

   Being a college student I go to school and look forward to doing things with friends, making new ones, and joining clubs. I look forward to that camaraderie with the people my age.

   While other people live for camaraderie - going to parties, being in a sorority, and generally being with people, I love doing things on my own! I love going for walks on my own, or go to the movies, driving around, or shopping. While others girls don't, I am perfectly happy being with myself and doing things by myself.
    You have to do whatever makes you happy! Whether going out on your own or doing something you never thought you would do and always wanted to do. Little things like that work wonders to your mind and body and how you grow and what you accomplish.
      This summer, although I didn't get a lot of free time to go clubbing, or  go out on dates, I found time to do things just for me! I met up with a couple of girlfriends I haven't seen in a long time -  we made plans and made it happen! I ran my dad's business for a week while he was away and landed him some jobs! I also went to New York City, got to see my favorite underground artist Alexz Johnson from the Canadian T.V. Show Instant Star. I had the best time and my dream came true!
     The best thing I did this summer was meet Jeremy Renner! His new movie premiered in the city and so my girlfriends and I stood across the street from the theater. We stood with our camera's ready; standing next to groups of crazy girls. His car rolled up and in a frenzy that seemed to hum slowly down the line of us, the fans, as he walked on down and signed autographs. He poked his head underneath the array of pictures shoved in front of my face and said "Hello." I smiled. IT changed my life forever.
    When you meet a famous person, you know what you're going to say in your head, you practice it over and over like a mantra. " You're such a great actor, I love you!" OK, maybe that last part makes me out to be a CRAZY fan, but I really would have said, "Jeremy your awesome and I think you do a really amazing job." But, the moment they step in front of you, for that brief moment you look into their eyes and all you do is just smile, you hand them whatever souvenir to sign. Whatever does come out of your mouth is incoherent jabber or something totally stupid that doesn't have anything to do with the amazing actor who's now walking away. It was truly life changing and has helped me realize that I can write this blog and I don't have to worry about being a Virgin. In some weird way, meeting Jeremy Renner that day in the city changed me in a beautiful way and I wish I can tell him in person soon.

   Go out and do something every day, a few times a week or just once every couple of weeks. Just for you. You never know, It might just change your life and give you a new sense of happiness! That is the most important thing: To make yourself happy, because no one can except for you!!

      Your success and happiness lies in you. Resolve to keep happiness and your joy and you shall form an invincible host against difficulties.

LOVE, V.Supergirl

Jeremy Renner and Alexz Johnson! <3